quinta-feira, 7 de agosto de 2014

Birthday Thoughts

Not a symbolic date, turning 46 has shown me a click. One of those that you have in a life time, here it goes :
"The oposite of Happiness is not Sadness, but Insatisfaction."
Many of us when are satisfied with food, boose or sex, have a kind of lazy smile on our faces.
It desapears within a few hours after, and we are ready for more. More material pleasures.
But can we get enough ? When is plenty, enough,  ?
You wake up in the morning and your chest has a kind of deep hole on it. You feel lonelly even with lots of people aroud you. There is  something missing. One may think, I have had a great lobster with perfect wine, had sex with two sexiest girls but there is something missing.
You look at the mirror and you see "proud'. Here goes a tip : Break the bloody mirror down. Proudness is the fastest way to go sad, empty and fullish.
You will only find satisfaction when you can balance things in your life, half spiritual, half material. The maximum you can can get on material is 50%, , but spiritually we can go up to 100% and join God for good. Meanwhile, you can take time, God will give you as many lives a you need on Earth to learn about simplicity.
Dedicate some time for reading, for walking around, to play with dogs or children, to gardening and get you hands on soil. Talk to friends in person, disconnect from internet (after you read this...heheh).
Sex is great as a phisical activity, but try to make love, make love to the same person for a longer period of time. Get intimate. Share the little you have, not what you have in abundance. Look for those in deep needs, and talk to them, they will help you more than you to them.
You can get satisfaction, you can be happy.
I have learned it in these last 5 years, all of the above may not be suitable for all, it was just great for me, and I wanted to share it with you, as I am pretty happy with a piece of my birthday cake.
Have a happy new life.

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